{"id":22741,"date":"2025-08-06T20:03:44","date_gmt":"2025-08-06T20:03:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.celebree.com\/franklin-cool-springs-tn\/?p=22741"},"modified":"2025-08-22T20:17:30","modified_gmt":"2025-08-22T20:17:30","slug":"back-to-school-separation-anxiety-heres-some-tips-to-help","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.celebree.com\/franklin-cool-springs-tn\/blog\/back-to-school-separation-anxiety-heres-some-tips-to-help\/","title":{"rendered":"Back to School Separation Anxiety? Here&#8217;s Some Tips to Help!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.27.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;0px|||||&#8221; da_disable_devices=&#8221;off|off|off&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; da_is_popup=&#8221;off&#8221; da_exit_intent=&#8221;off&#8221; da_has_close=&#8221;on&#8221; da_alt_close=&#8221;off&#8221; da_dark_close=&#8221;off&#8221; da_not_modal=&#8221;on&#8221; da_is_singular=&#8221;off&#8221; da_with_loader=&#8221;off&#8221; da_has_shadow=&#8221;on&#8221;][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;4.27.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.27.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.27.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<span data-contrast=\"auto\">Whether you are new to childcare, transitioning to a new school, or just moving down the hallway to a new classroom, separation anxiety is a major concern for both parents and children. <\/span><i><span data-contrast=\"auto\">What will my new classroom be like? How will my child adjust to a new routine? Who are these new people in our lives?<\/span><\/i><span data-contrast=\"auto\">\u00a0<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span><span data-contrast=\"auto\" xml:lang=\"EN-US\" lang=\"EN-US\" class=\"TextRun MacChromeBold SCXW203593367 BCX0\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW203593367 BCX0\"><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">So often in life, we as parents want to protect our children from discomfort. But change is an inevitable part of life, and at Celebree School of Franklin Cool Springs, we are ready to help you navigate those transitions. By using our Conscious Discipline framework, we can give children the support they need to navigate new challenges, including separation anxiety. <\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\"><\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b><span data-contrast=\"auto\">What is Separation Anxiety?<\/span><\/b><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Separation anxiety is a normal phase of development. Per the American Academy of Pediatrics, this anxiety starts around 6-9 months of age when children develop object permanence. For some children, this is a brief phase; for others, it can last until the age of three. While developmentally appropriate, separation anxiety weighs heavily on the hearts of parents and educators. <\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\"><\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b><span data-contrast=\"auto\">A big feeling- not a bad feeling<\/span><\/b><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">As adults, we can sometimes confuse big feelings with bad feelings. When we\u2019re overwhelmed with stress or sadness, we have to pause, name the emotion, and face it head-on. Those same skills can be taught to our children. Separation anxiety is not an indicator that children aren\u2019t ready to move on to a new experience. It just means they are not sure how to process a new adventure. Even adults are prone to first-day jitters. However, we as adults know from experience that our uncomfortable feelings will pass, and we can teach that resilience to our children as well. <\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Conscious Discipline in the Classroom.<\/span><\/b><span data-contrast=\"auto\">\u00a0<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Celebree School utilizes Conscious Discipline as a framework for our social emotional curriculum. It is an incredible tool for anxiety, framed around encouragement, empathy, and connection. It also has an emphasis on rituals, specifically routines throughout the day to help children regulate their nervous system and feel secure. <\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">A great example is our Greeting Rituals. Each morning, teachers offer several options to say hello -high five, wave, dance, hug- and children choose what feels right that day. These simple moments of choice and connection build trust and create structure. We continue this with daily morning meetings and visual schedules, so children always know what\u2019s coming next.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b><span data-contrast=\"auto\">When does separation anxiety end???<\/span><\/b><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">For a parent in the thick of it, that is the pressing question. Unfortunately, the answer varies from child to child. Many children show improvement around the age of two. One way to help with this is to talk about specific things at school that your child may be excited about. By utilizing our carefully prepared lesson plans, you can point out specific activities your child may be excited about and talk them up. \u201cIt looks like you&#8217;re going to be doing a block challenge today at school! That will be something you are so good at! I bet when we get to school, you can ask Miss Abby all about that.\u201d <\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Keep in mind: children form habits and emotional associations quickly. A tearful goodbye might become part of their drop-off routine, even if they\u2019re excited to be at school. They may cry at the door, then happily run off to play. As the brain develops, patterns form\u2014and some can take time to outgrow. What looks like distress may actually be a habit. If you are concerned, request your child\u2019s teacher to update you in an hour; they\u2019ll be happy to do so! <\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Back to School, Back to Fun<\/span><\/b><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">One of the best tools we can give our children is the confidence to face any feeling. Separation anxiety is one of those first challenging feelings, and sometimes it can feel like we are asking too much of our littlest loves. By showing children that school is safe, predictable, and full of people who care about them, we help them build the skills to manage emotions long beyond the preschool years. Our teachers at Celebree School are equipped to help support you and your family through every phase of life. 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